Opps what to do?

My sister gets married on saturday, i am a bridesmaid and i went out yesterday and bought my shoes, they are black (the dress is black) and i really liked them, best part is they were only $29 from spendless shoes.


The oops part, when i showed my mum, she said she thought they were the same as my sisters, who is the bride, i looked at the ones she bought and they are exactly the same but hers are white and cost $160, and the sole has a different brand on them. So now we are in a delema. What would you do? Just change them and not tell her so she doesnt get upset that she spent so much on 'special shoes' when the same pair was at spendless for heaps less, (yes they did have white)


or would you just tell her and see what she wants to do?


Or change them and still tell her?

Opps what to do?
Be the good sister and tell her and let her decide if she wants YOU to exchange them.
Reply:Exchange your shoes and don't bother to tell your sister. You should have no trouble finding another pair of black shoes. You shouldn't wear the same shoes as the bride anyway.The fact that the shoes were so much cheaper at spendless isn't a huge deal to worry about unless your sister can return the shoes she has already bought and buy the cheaper pair. If this is not an option, then don't bother to tell her at all. She's probably already stressed and worried with wedding jitters. Don't tell her this right now.
Reply:I don't understand the problem.Why would you take them back to buy a more expensive pair that are the same. I would keep them, tell her that you have your shoes and that you got them for a deal. If she wants to take hers back and get the cheaper ones that is her choice. I would not feel bad because yours were cheaper.
Reply:I understand your point , but this is her big day so don't make her upset just for a pair of shoe, you probably wear it and don't tell the cost , if she ask just tell her that its somewhat like yours.
Reply:I would definitely tell her. She may want to take hers back and exchange them, thats what I would do. sounds like you got a great bargain, you should share it with her.
Reply:To tell you the truth, with all your sister will have on here mind, I don’t even think she will have the time or effort to notice your shoes. Just don’t mention them.
Reply:You wear yours and she can wear hers. No one is going to be looking at your shoes anyway! Then after the wedding if anything is said just tell her the truth. Some are better shoppers than others!
Reply:Just wear the shoes you bought and don't tell her how much they cost. So what if they are the same style, they're different colors. Congrats to your sister... :)
Reply:Let's hope your sister is more concerned with the marriage, not the wedding and the shoes on her feet.
Reply:i would tell my sister.. it would be up to her if she wants to change them or not


she may love them and not want to give them up for any price


her wedding.. her choice
Reply:I would tell your sister so she could go get the cheaper pair and take the other pair back.
Reply:I don't see what is the problem..don't tell her. Just wear them! I don't even think she will care.
Reply:I would tell her-


Honisty is the best policy!
Reply:just wear them and tell her I don't think she will get mad all the attention is on her anyway.



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