Bizarre but Real situation...Please help!?

Boyfriend has 2 kids with his ex.


BF tells ex that he is marrying me next month.


Babymama goes to Police the next day and says that my Boyfriend abandoned his kids.


Warrant issued for child abandonment. Court is in 2 weeks.


Babymama wants him on child support payments.


They had a previous agreement that he would buy EVERTHING they needed (which he does).


He has never abandoned his kids and the day b4 she filed child abandonment charges he was at her house bringing the kids everything that the babymama had requested (diapers, wipes, shoes etc...).


Heres the crazy part... I did a secret paternity test on his kids a while ago and the oldest child is not his!


Now the court has ordered all parties involved to submit to a DNA test before the court date so obviously **** will hit the fan.


My question is: How will the DNA test affect the child support case because my Boyfriend is on both birth certificates.

Bizarre but Real situation...Please help!?
Secret DNA test? Come on....





Obviously if he's determined not to be the father he won't have to pay support even if he's on the birth certificate.





There are a lot of flaws in this story. Wait and see what the court says.
Reply:Since he is not the father of the oldest child he will not have to pay the child support for him/her. It is up to your boyfriend if he wants to continue paying.





As for the mother, she's psycho. It will be very obvious that he did not abandon his kids at all.
Reply:The name on the birth certificate is totally irrelevant to a paternity case.





If the DNA tests show that he's only the biological father of the younger child, that's the only one he'll be ordered to pay child support for - but also the only one he'll have a legal right to visitation with.





Richard
Reply:If DNA gets the accused off a crime, then DNA will get a pseudo-daddy off of child support!
Reply:Even if he´s not the father, all the parties thought he was, and he has acted like such all the time. It won´t affect her case. He is still responsible for the child. However, the question is, does she have a case? He´ll need to show proof of everything he´s bought and prove that he has been responsible for the kids, receipts, credit card statements, everything possible, is he was the one to take the to the pediatrician, have a letter from the Dr, etc.
Reply:What I find strange is that you think this situation is bizarre.. it is almost standard operating procedure, in the US.


1- IF there is a court order about child support, then he is or is not complying with that. Agreements that are verbal or between them are just a bit hard to enforce or claim he is not complying.


2- not clear on her definition of abandonment. She will need to PROVE that he did this (didn't see them, support them, contact, etc). He will hopefully have evidence to support his statement that this is not correct.


3- DNA testing is a good thing. It WILL show if she has lied concerning paternity, and especially if she shows him as father on the certificate when he isn't. I agree, how did you do a 'secret' test? but.. you may be right, if you took samples when he had them for visitation. I don't think your test will be of any value in court, and I would not mention it.


I'd say 1/2 the kids in this country are in custody/ support disputes.. and I don't even WANT to talk about the level of dishonesty.
Reply:I did a secret paternity test on his kids a while ago and the oldest child is not his!





right. The Ronco Pocket DNA tester?





See a CYS atty
Reply:Neither him or "babymomma" have any business getting into a new relationship until their kids are older.





They've already endured enough "family trauma" and the last thing they need is NEW momma and NEW daddy or boy/girl friends coming into/out of their lives.





Find yourself a nice guy who DOESN'T have all these issues. Find a guy who doesn't have to give away 80% of his money that won't be available for any kids you and him happen to make.





Get a new guy.........



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